Begin anew Wednesday, Dec 31 2008 

Well, we’re almost in the new year in this part of the world.  If I have it my way, the day will pass as normally as all the rest.  Oh sure, I’m happy that I’m here to see yet another year begin, but I have other new beginnings in my life that eclipse the mere start of a new year.  I’m starting a new career in a few months.  I’m a new graduate and the first one in my family.  I have a new job starting in a couple of weeks.  In another year, I’ll me a new homeowner.  Oh yes, so many more things to be happy about than the new year.

Money has been tight in my household for the past few months.  It’s not too bad right now; we just have to watch what we spend our money on.  The problem is that there are five people – four being adults – in the house, and only one is really working.  That would be the Hubby.  Dad gets his pension check every month, and the parents get a rent check from their rental property each month, but that’s really all of their income.  The Hubby’s paycheck has to take care of everything else, which is a lot of pressure to put on the man.  I mean, we don’t even consider his pay to be high enough for us to live on our own, for goodness sake!  I won’t get into the details of what’s going on, and we’re all trying to do our part, but it’s hard to watch.  It’s just another reason for me to go back to work. And soon!

It is traditional in this part of the U.S. to eat blackeyed peas on the first day of the year.  It’s considered good luck, or some such nonsense.  I think there’s supposed to be something else served with the peas, but I can’t for the life of me remember what it is.  Regardless, in this house, we like our blackeyed peas plain and served over fresh, sweet cornbread.  Last night after dinner, I realized that we had about a dozen bags of various dried beans, peas, and lentils in the pantry.  It’s not entirely unusual for us to have beans and rice or beans and cornbread for dinner.  It’s a cheap meal that we all (mostly) enjoy.  The pile of bags was untidy and made it hard to find what you needed, so I pulled all of them out and started organizing them.  My goal was to look them all (That’s the process you go through with dried beans when you pull out all of the broken and bad beans, and make sure no dirt clods or rocks are in there.  It’s a pain, but it must be done.) and then put each type of bean into a plastic container that could be labelled and stacked neatly.  I went through the two bags of red kidney beans first, then the huge bag of great northern beans, then the half-bag of navy beans, and finally the two huge bags of pinto beans.  By that point, my hands were filthy (beans are dirty little things) and my back ached. stove While I was working, I spied an unopened bag of blackeyed peas and decided right then that we must have them for dinner tonight.  So, first thing this morning, I looked the blackeyed peas and got them started on the stove.  I should know better than to not check on them frequently – especially if you put a lid on the pot – because they made a huge mess on my freshly cleaned stove.  You can’t really see it in this picture, but there’s a grey haze around the outside edges of the burner grate, and the whole outside of the pot is covered with grey bean streaks.  When I lifted up the lid, I had blackeyed pea hulls go everywhere.  You can actually see one hanging onto the grate at the very front.  It’s just peeking over the edge.  The other side of the stove was not spared, either.  It’s like the whole stovetop had a grey, fuzzy monster lay on it and leave behind it’s fuzz.  And I can’t really get to any of it to clean it just yet, becuase it’s too hot to deal with.  By the time the stove cools off enough to clean, the grey fuzz will have had adequate time to harden and become one with the stove top, making my job just that more difficult.  But those will be some tasty, tasty beans.

I am about halfway done with my current cross stitch project.  It’s going to be so pretty when it’s done!  I’ve been working on it in sections, and thankfully the sections have come together perfectly.  That’s called counting squares five times before placing stitches!  The only stitch I haven’t done for any of the sections has been the French knots.  There’s over twenty of them in this project, and I can’t really say that I’ve perfected them.  I’m going to have to do some practice knots before I do the ones on the cross – otherwise they’ll all be different sizes, and some will be falling apart.  Not pretty.  Once I’m done with the stitching, I’m getting it framed and sending it to my dear friend, Seamus!  (Hi Seamus!)  He’s been waiting patiently for me to finish.  It’s only been a year (I think)!  Hopefully, it will have been worth the wait!

Cross stitching the cross

Cross stitching the cross

Dreaming of dorm showers at the Wal-Mart Monday, Dec 29 2008 

Right now, my son is discovering the wonder that is Victor Borge.  Thank you, YouTube.  His favorite so far: recupernineded, from “Inflationary Speak”.  That man was hilarious. :)

I went a-visiting today, which was very nice.  The weather cooperated, which made it nicer, and the traffic semi-cooperated, which is to be expected.  The visit was very nice, the kids are getting hYUUge, and we had much to talk about.  Plus a couple of games of bingo to play.  It was good to get out of the house and do something besides run errands.  I’ve been very neglectful of my friends over these past four years, so it’s also nice to start making up for lost time.  If such a thing can be done, anyway.

Sunset in Crosby

Sunset in Crosby

Driving home, I was accompanied by a setting sun.  Just at the intersection to turn into town, I had a flaming orange sun at my back, creating fiery halos around all the cars, and a lovely lavender sky to the front.  It was just beautiful, and the photo does it no justice whatsoever.

This picture was taken by the camera on the Kiddo’s new cell phone.  As poorly rendered this photo might be, it is leaps and bounds better than any photo my sad little phone-camera can produce.  I really need a new phone.  And a new, proper camera.

 

Today was my day for deliveries, apparently, because almost all the mail was for me.  I had placed an order for some work attire a few weeks ago, but one of the tops was backordered.  It finally came in today.  I’m glad I didn’t need it for Christmas.  I also placed an order several weeks ago with Amazon for two CDs for the Hubby.  One, Roger Water’s Radio KAOS, came in just a couple of days after I’d ordered it.  He loved it!  Back in our dating days, he had this album on tape, but it has since been long-lost.  He was glad to get it back.  After listening to it again, I realized two things.  First, I can’t understand a single thing the dude with the computerized voice is saying.  Second, there are definite echoes of The Wall by Pink Floyd to it.  It’s a nice set of songs, actually.  Today, the second album I ordered came in.  Billy Thorpe’s Children of the Sun.  It had to be imported from Australia, of all things!  This is another of those that the Hubby owned but lost and, as far as I knew, missed.  I was wrong.  He missed exactly one song from this album and had purchased it online quite some time ago.  D’oh!  He was glad for my effort, though.  You win some; you lose some.

I had a really strange night last night.  Around eight, I started feeling really sleepy and cold.  So, I did the logical thing and went to bed.  The Hubby joined me around midnight, but was having trouble sleeping.  An hour later, and I’m awakened by a throbbing headache and righteous heartburn.  I took some Pepto for both, and hoped for the best, but 30 minutes later both were back with a vengeance.  I got up, took some proper meds for both problems, and sat up waiting for them to start working.  While I waited, I cross-stitched.  (Yeah, I finally picked my needlework back up.  It only took me three weeks to feel up to dealing with it!)  After an hour or so, I got tired of the stitching and turned on the t.v.  I should have just gone to bed, but I wasn’t feeling particularly sleepy anymore.  I flipped through the channel guide and landed on TCM, just as they were starting a movie called “A Thousand Clowns”.  I watched this supremely strange flick until the Hubby woke up to go to work – 5 a.m.!  I figured that I should be good and tired by that point, and tried to go back to bed.  I would sleep for an hour, wake up with my nightgown twisted round my body, have to stand up to get it straight again, and then lay back down to start the cycle all over again.  My alarm went off at 8:30, so I got up, but the throbbing headache was back and I was so woozy that I had trouble walking straight!  I took a shower, hoping that it would wake me up, but no luck.  I climbed back into bed, wet hair wrapped in a towel, and fell back to sleep for 45 minutes.  I had the weirdest dreams about standing in line to take a shower at the dorm I was living in for school, but for some reason, the school had located those showers in the local Wal-Mart.  The area where we had to store our clothes while we were showering was right next to an identical display that customers shopped at.  Very often, students would exit the shower, only to have part or all of their clothes missing – purchased by a Wal-Mart customer.  I got very frustrated when one of my new bras came up missing, and for some reason that’s what woke me up!  Even stranger, when I woke up, I felt rested and refreshed.

Back to the everyday Saturday, Dec 27 2008 

So, I got an email a couple of days ago from the photography company that took pictures at graduation.  They took one picture while you were receiving your tube-thingy (the thing that’s supposed to hold your degree, but which, at that point, only held a certificate of recognition), and another once you were off the stage, with you holding the tube-thingy up.  Fine, fine.  We didn’t take photos at graduation becuase we were taking videos instead.  I was looking forward to seeing the pics and getting one or two for posterity. 

Ummm….no.  Not when they’re priced at ridiculously high prices.  There are a total of four pictures I can order: the one of me on the stage, a body shot of me off the stage, a head shot which is just a close up of the body shot, and an overview shot of the entire arena filled with spectators and graduates.  If I get one 5×7 of each shot, I’ll be spending over $60.  And that’s before shipping and taxes are added.   This company doesn’t get it.  We are college students and, therefore, have no money!    I have until the 7th of January to order pictures, but I doubt I will.  I would love to have a pic of me holding my tube-thingy, but not at that price.  For that kind of money, I’ll put my cap and gown back on, grab the tube and go pose in the front yard.  Our pictures would turn out just as good as the ones this company is trying to sell me.


Brina inna lamp

Brina inna lamp

In other news, three of our four kitties have figured out how to turn on the touch lamp on the Hubby’s desk.  And at least one has figured out that my mom’s desk has a touch lamp, as well.  Quite frequently, I’ll be the last person awake at night.  Once everyone else has gone to bed, I’ll make the rounds of the house, checking all the outer doors to make sure they’re locked, checking computers to make sure they’re off, and turning off any extraneous lights.  By the time I go to bed, the touch lamps in my office and my mom’s office are back on…with a cat laying beneath it.  Now, Sabrina was definitely the first one to figure out this little trick.  She’s getting very old – sixteen years, to be exact – and does not like being cold.  In fact, I would say that she might be having a hard time staying warm.  Laying underneath a desk lamp provides a modicum of warmth from the bulb.  The lamp on the Hubby’s desk is pushed pretty far back, so Sabrina can lay behind his monitor and underneath the lamp at the same time – blocking the cool, moving air from the ceiling fan and getting the warmth from the light bulb.  Right now, she’s laying on the lamp, she has turned it on to the highest setting (it has three: low, medium, high), and has her head underneath the lampshade.  I have witnessed Neptune turning on the lamp, as well, but I have a suspicion that it was purely an accident with her.  Also, Mom’s cat, Cosmo, can and will turn the lamps on, but doesn’t lay underneath them.  She just thinks it’s a game.  Actually, to Cosmo, everything  is a game.


The Kiddo has a friend over this weekend.  They met when the Kiddo started Tae Kwon Do, but they went to different schools.  Their first year in junior high was also their first year to attend the same school, but it was our last year in Baytown.  It’s very surprising that they stayed in touch since we moved to a different city, in a different school district, and the Kiddo chose to stop Tae Kwon Do at the same time.  Nevertheless, they are still good friends.  It’s nice to see.  They’re being a little too quiet right now, though, so I’d better go see what they’ve gotten themselves up to.

holidays Thursday, Dec 25 2008 

 

Image courtesy Wikimedia Commons

Image courtesy Wikimedia Commons

 

Hanukkah is continuing through the 28th, Solstice and Ramadan has already occurred, Kwanzaa begins tomorrow, and Christmas is today.  Pick your poison and consider yourself to be wished merry by me.

I stayed up too late and got up too early.  Story of my life right now.  Now I need a nap, but I have things to do.

You know what’s really sad?  The Kiddo is having a friend stay the night on Saturday, but his room is so messy right now and he really needs to do laundry.  I don’t have the heart to tell him to get started on it today, though.  Yet I don’t think he’s going to get it all done tomorrow, either.  *sigh*

We kept things very simple this year.  No tree, no decorations, and I don’t know that we’ll ever put them up again.  We just don’t need them, don’t want them, and find them more work and trouble than they’re worth.  And, the greenery is a symbol of a religion in which I do not participate, so I really don’t see the point.  We haven’t done away with it all yet, but we’re getting there.  The only person that received gifts was the Kiddo, and he received exactly three gifts from us.  Again, I don’t think we’ll ever go back after seeing how uncomplicated the holiday season becomes by doing this.  If we want to give him a ton of gifts, we’ll do it for his birthday, or just for the hell of it.  There’s just no reason to support the consumerism mentality, or a pagan holiday, anymore. 

Anyway, we’re done except for dinner, which is pretty normal stuff actually.  We opted out of doing a whole turkey or a ham and instead we’re doing a turkey ham casserole that is a normal dinner for us about once a month.  The only bow to the holiday is the addition of diced yams, but I don’t eat them, so I won’t notice.

Regardless of my simplification and reduction of the holidays, I hope everyone that is in celebration of one kind or another this time of year has a wonderful, joyous day.

Brain turned off Tuesday, Dec 23 2008 

Me: “Ooh, Bridge to Terabithia comes in tomorrow!” (via Netflix)

The Kiddo: “The movie?”

Me: “No, the actual bridge.

The Kiddo: “You know, Mom, there was a book before there was a movie.”

Me: pwnd by her own son.

Finishing my thought Sunday, Dec 21 2008 

Sorry for the interruption.  Dinner out called and I had to answer.

The ceremony seemed to last forever.  And forever is a pretty close estimate.  It actually lasted darn near three hours – far in excess of last May’s ceremony.  There were speeches made by various people (none of whom I knew) and the deans from each of the four schools – Business, Education, Human Sciences & Humanities, and Science & Computer Engineering – were introduced.  Each dean went through the same procedure: announced the honors graduates, presented the bachelor’s candidates, presented the master’s candidates, and formally informed the president of the college that we had completed the requirements of our degrees, then asked that our degrees be conferred upon us.  The audience applauded and we sat back down.

I would have been happy if the ceremony had ended there, but no.  We still had to walk across the stage to receive a tube containing a certificate of recognition and to shake hands of people we didn’t know and had never seen before.  Not a single teacher I have had in my year and a half at UHCL was on that stage, and that made me a little sad.  Anyway, my school went second-to-last, and we were the quickest done because we are, by far, the smallest department on campus.  I guess there aren’t very many brave souls willing to major in science, math, or computers anymore.  So, we had our name announced, walked across the stage, shook three people’s rather sweaty hands, grabbed the tube thingy, and walked back down to have our picture taken and return to our seats.  Thankfully, we didn’t have to stand the entire time – just when we were actually in line to walk the stage. 

During the stage walking, the supporters for each graduate announced had to do a little cheer, despite being asked not to.  Some were kinder than others and kept it short.  Others were obnoxious and had to scream and blast air horns.  I hate air horns and believe they should be banned from public places.  There were so many graduates that it took quite a long time for everyone to walk, and by the end the audience had gotten bored and restless.  So bored, apparently, that two lovely individuals – one at either end of the arena – decided to have a short air horn battle.  It started with one blasting for their graduate, then giving one last short toot.  Then the person at the other end answered the short toot, to which the first guy (and you know it had to be a guy) had to respond with yet another toot.  They went back and forth for several minutes, to the mixed dismay and amusement of the graduates.  I wonder about people sometimes.

After the walking, there was a traditional song/video presentation (Aaron Copeland’s Fanfare for the Common Man accompanied by a slide show of sights on campus), then another short speech, short prayer, and a recessional. 

We were done.  Praise God Almighty, I was done.  The whole 7+ hour process, begun at 3pm when we left and finished at 10:30pm when we finally got out of the parking lot, had taken it’s toll.  I had been full of nervous energy on the way to the arena, but now I was hungry, tired, annoyed, but also jubilant.  It was a very strange concoction of emotions.  It was far too late to try and celebrate – most of the restaurants close at 11pm – so the only thing to do was to go home, have a late dinner, and collapse in bed.  So I did.

And that was my graduation.

Oh!  I forgot to mention.  I graduated with honors!  Me!  Just cum laude, but still!  (Is there any “just” when it comes to graduating with honors??)  That was probably the second most proud achievement of my life.  Not the actual graduation, but the honors.  (My first most proud achievement being my son, of course.)

Wrung Out Saturday, Dec 20 2008 

I feel wrung out, like a dishrag. 

Last night was graduation, or commencement, as it is more properly called.  We thought it would take over an hour to get to the arena it was being held in, but it took 45 minutes.  I was there an hour earlier than I needed to be.  An hour to sit in the car and fret.  I was so nervous and could not tell you why.  Graduates were supposed to be at the arena at 5pm, two hours before the ceremony began.  And, promptly at 5pm, the doors opened and I was finally able to do something with all my nervous energy.  I filed in, got my name card, was informed that I would be the first to graduate in my school/department (WTH?!?), found my seat, and stayed there. 

Did I mention that I was nervous?  You’d think I was going to give a speech or sing a solo or do something equally unlikely but would be a hoot to witness.  There were a lot of chairs in that waiting area.  I had no idea how many until later, but I can say that there were a lot.  Slowly, people started filtering in and finding their seat.  The person seated next to me came in, but I didn’t know her.  In fact, I knew exactly three people in my school who were graduating with me.  And by “know” I only mean that I recognize their face because they’ve been in a class with me once.  I couldn’t tell you their names.  All the bachelor’s candidates were easy to spot: plain black robe with huge sleeves, white collar, and typical mortarboard hat.  The master’s candidates, however, were a colorful bunch.  They got to wear a hood instead of a collar.  The hoods were color-coded, according to the type of degree they were receiving.  At 6:45, the “platform party” (instructors and deans from the university) came in and added to the cacophony of color.  I felt like I was in the middle of the Harry Potter book.  All we needed was a sorting hat. 

Hogwarts, anyone?

Apparently, if you are a dean, professor, or other “head of state” that attends or presides over commencement exercises, you get to wear your “dress robes” from the college you received your doctorate from.  The “dress robes” are more properly called “regalia” these days and they were a sight to behold.  There were people holding large wooden staffs (staves? surely not…yep..weird) and other professors in funny hats and colorful robes to lead each department and we all marched into the arena two-by-two to the sounds of Pomp and Circumstance, as well as cheers, and applause from the nearly 7000 witnesses to the occasion.

Before we proceeded into the arena (formally called “The Processional”), I caught part of a conversation between a staff member and the Marshall for my school (Marshalls being the people in funny hats and colorful robes that lead each department).  This was, apparently, the largest graduating class UHCL has ever, umm, graduated.  Over 1400 graduates between last summer and this fall.  I always thought that December’s graduation would be smaller than May’s simply because May is the “normal” time for people to graduate.  I didn’t take into account that the school does not hold a summer graduation ceremony, excuse me – commencement – and those people, if they want to walk, can do so during the fall commencement.  So, although summer graduates don’t exactly double the number of graduates, they do add considerably to the numbers.

Anyway, we proceeded into the arena, filed into the appropriate rows and got to stand until everyone was in and a prayer had been said.  That wasn’t bad.  The School of Science and Computer Engineering (my school, duh) was one of the last ones in, so we didn’t have to stand for very long.  The atmosphere was one of excitement and joy.  The audience was talkative, but not annoyingly so, and were quick to applaud anything that happened on stage.  Including an announcement by the president of the university that the Fire Marshall was issuing a request that the exit stairs be cleared and that those people move upstairs to the viewing room (the seating in the arena was filled to capacity).

 

To be continued…..

Running around Tuesday, Dec 16 2008 

Yesterday was a busy day.  I had meant to get up at 9, but I turned the alarm off when it started beeping, and slept for another hour.  Getting up at 10 is okay.  It’s more okay that getting up at noon.  Straightaway, I called the school district about my paperwork to get fingerprinted.  Ms. B, the lady over the substitute teachers set up the appointment for me while I was on the phone with her and said to pick up the paperwork ASAP. 

Once I was off the phone, I checked to see if grades were posted.  No luck.  So, then I grabbed the shopping list I’d been writing for the past week and checked the pantry for things that I thought about needing but wasn’t sure if we were really out of.  That done, I started dinner, which was two roasting hens.  We weren’t going to eat both of them, but the roasting pan I use is big enough to fit two.  So, when we know we’re going to roast a chicken, we usually get two and freeze the second one whole and fully cooked. 

I actually almost forgot to start the chickens.  After checking my shopping list, I grabbed my purse and keys, got in the car and backed out of the driveway.  I realized at the end of the driveway that I had gone through the whole process of defrosting the chickens the day before, getting the roaster down from the top of the kitchen cabinets, and pulling out all the spices, only to forget to season and start cooking the chickens.  I have the worst one-track mind, I tell you!

Once the chickens were in the roaster and cooking, I ran to the post office for stamps so that I can finally mail Christmas cards.  I’m running late with them, but that’s okay.  There was a short line, but it was slow moving and I ended up standing in line for over 20 minutes.  I kept a good attitude about it, though, and was nice and polite to the postal worker that helped me.  I knew before I got there that they would probably be busy.  It is the holiday season, after all, and packages must be mailed.  Right?  Anyway, I asked for two books of stamps and the postal worker made a noise of disappointment just before telling me that they were out of the “Virgin and Child” stamps and would I be okay with the “Nutcracker” stamps.  I told her that it didn’t actually matter which stamps I got, and she perked right back up and said, “Would “Forever” stamps be okay?”  What kinds of grief does the public give these poor government workers over the pattern on their stamps?  So dumb.  SO dumb.

Anyway, after hibernating in the post office for a bazillion years, I swung by the school district’s main office to pick up the paperwork for fingerprinting.  That was a quick trip because the woman that handles the substitute teachers seems to be pretty well organized.  From there, I headed to Wal-Mart to do the shopping.  There were a few bathroom products I needed, like shampoo and facial wash, and I stopped by the books and magazines to pick up some puzzle books.  I even remembered to pick up bobby pins (to keep the cap on my head during graduation) and safety pins (to keep the collar on the gown secured during graduation).  Then I headed over to the grocery section and found everything on the list fairly quickly.  I had to search a little to find cardamom in the spice section, but otherwise everything was in obvious places.  Checking out, however, was not so simple. 

I got in a line that only had two people in it.  By far the shortest line.  That should have been my warning.  The person at the register looked to be almost done.  Her basked was empty and she had her pocketbook out.  The guy behind her, however had a basket and a half full of stuff.  Apparently he was with her because once she pushed her empty cart out of the way, he just kept loading stuff on the conveyor belt.  There was some strange sorting going on, too, because he kept setting random items aside on the metal end of the belt that doesn’t move.  They kept discussing who had what money, and whether he was going to get that or if she would get this.  And the cashier just kept ringing stuff up and bagging it.  By the time these two were done, they had three shopping carts full of bags and a fourth cart half full of things they apparently decided they didn’t want.  The fourth cart was left parked in the middle of the checkout lane, blocking me from gaining access to the belt.  Grrrr!  They just left it there!  The cashier and I shared a glance, and I pushed the cart all the way through the lane and over to the side so that the empty lane next to us got to deal with it.  I want to know what color the sky is in the world those two inhabit.  Also, just what does it feel like to have the universe revolving you?  Can you feel the tug?

Once I was able to check out, it took less than five minutes. 

Anyway, once I got home, I unloaded my bags, put up the groceries and bathroom products, and then gleefully sat down to my puzzle books.  About an hour later, the Kiddo got home from school, reminding me that his Christmas concert was that night.  So, it was a mad scramble to find all his dress clothes, make sure he had all his music and mouthpieces, finding the video camera and trying to remember how to use it, and getting myself ready and presentable for a concert.  I ended up just turning the roaster off and texting the Hubby that someone else would have to figure out what side dishes to serve with the chicken, because I wasn’t going to be home.  I love this time of year!

The concert was lovely, as junior high band concerts can be, and we got home around 8:30.  Mom and Dad finished dinner and everyone was just sitting down to eat when we got home.  Apparently, everyone else was running late too!  The chicken was wonderful, falling off the bone, and very juicy.  At least the part of dinner I had done turned out really good!  Buttered rice and mixed veggies were added, making for a very tasty meal.  Once dinner was done and cleaned up, and the extra chicken was stored and frozen, it was time for bed for those who had to work or go to school.  I decided to get a head start on holiday baking and made a double batch of “Million Dollar Cookies” from the Pillsbury bake-off.  They really should be called Double Peanut Butter Cookies, since that’s what they are.  They’re a little bit of a pain to make, but at least nothing was from scratch.  I love home baked cookies, but I’m more likely to buy refrigerated cookie dough than to make them from scratch.  These are a little of both.  They turned out really well, but if I ever make them again, I’ll need to remember to reduce the baking time.  They should be more chewey and less crispy than they really are, but at least they taste good!

Today was another busy day, but not like yesterday.  Again, I got up at 10 (seems to be the time for me to get up in the morning), got dressed and headed into Humble to have my fingerprints taken.  My appointment was for 12:40, and I got there by 12:15.  Not bad considering I’d left at 11:30.  I figured that it would take me a little more than an hour to find the place because I’m just not used to finding places in the Humble area.  The people working at the place were about to go to lunch and suggested I do the same.  They were due back at 12:45.  I mentioned to them that I had an appointment for 12:40, which was before they were supposed to get back.  The girl nodded, as if this was an expected occurrence, and said that they were running late but would attend to me just as soon as they got back.  Okay.  I could have gotten very indignant and pissy, but I didn’t.  I was early, and I was anticipating a bit of a wait.  So, what’s the difference if I wait inside or in my car.  At least in my car I had the radio to keep me occupied.  So, I told the girl that this was no problem and that I’d be waiting when they got back.  She seemed a little surprised that I was going to wait there, in my car, and not take her suggestion to go get lunch, but I wasn’t hungry!  So, I climbed back into my car, turned on the talk radio, and sat back to wait.  Just a few minutes later, an older woman waved me inside.  She explained that their lunch was being delayed by the pizza delivery people, and that there was no reason for them to not see me while they waited.  So, in less than five minutes, my fingerprints were taken, my photo was taken, and I was on my way home.  Well.  Okay, then!

I got home around 1:40 because traffic was so heavy.  I talked with Dad for a little while and worked on some puzzles, and then the Kiddo got home.  He has midterms starting tomorrow, and his first one is in Algebra.  He hasn’t been doing very well in that class this year, so he asked me to sit down and work with him for a bit.  I’ve been working with him all semester and his understanding of the concepts seems really solid, so I haven’t been able to figure out where the disconnect is happening.  Well, apparently he wasn’t connecting concepts to math, because that’s what we did all afternoon.  I think he feels a lot better about his test now.  I even gave him a couple of practice problems to work, which revealed some other small issues that we straightened out, but overall he did well. 

During the study session, I had to get dinner started.  Tonight, I made Potato, Cheese & Broccoli soup – from scratch.  I got the recipe from my nephew, who made it for us when we visited with him the day after Thanksgiving.  So, in the middle of graphing lines and solving algebra problems, the Kiddo and I peeled and cubed potatoes, cooked a roux and essentially made the entire soup together.  All while studying for his midterm.  What is so remarkable about this is that he never got impatient and short with me, and I never had to talk him off of the ceiling.  It turns out that he’s been stressing pretty badly over his Algebra tests, which really is part of the problem.  So, I also gave him some test-taking strategies and some tips to de-stress mid-test.  He seemed really appreciative of the help and the advice and I have full confidence that he’s going to do well on his test tomorrow.

And now, I have stamps to put on envelopes and maybe a couple of puzzles to solve, then it’s off to bed with me!

Planning for the week Sunday, Dec 14 2008 

The hubby and I did our Christmas shopping yesterday.  We got what we were looking for, and for cheaper than we thought it would be, and were back home in just two hours.  Sweet!  Part of what we purchased was a cell phone for the Kiddo.  We decided, instead of a pay-as-you-go package, to just add him to our plan.  Our cell phone company has “smart controls” that we added to his phone that will let me control how many minutes he’s allowed each month.  And, to eliminate problems with texting, we upgraded to unlimited texting and multimedia messaging.  Doing that re-enabled my phone’s ability to send pics to my email.  So, I have pics again!  Yay!

My car after 1 hour of snow

Yes, it’s true.  Houston really did get some snow last week. 

I’m really glad that we got the issue with transferring multimedia on our cell phones straightened out.  When I knew I could email myself the pics, I actually did take quite a few pictures.  Since we stopped being able to send them that way, I noticed that I stopped taking pictures altoghether.  I’m not a photographer, not in the slightest, but it seems strange to have a family and to be living my life and to not document any of it via photography.  I still want to get a decent digital camera because, let’s face it, my cell phone takes craptastic pictures.

Tomorrow is the last week of classes for the Kiddo.  He has actual midterms (*gasp*) Wednesday through Friday, and will have early dismissal each day.  His Christmas concert is tomorrow night and I can’t wait to hear him play.  I may even attempt to take a video of it!  We’ll see.

I also need to visit the grocery store next week.  I have baking to do for the holidays and I can’t do it because I’m out of so much stuff.  I’m out of normal things, like cooking oil, which is really strange.  I could understand it if I had to go shopping for things that I only use when I do holiday baking, but no.  I guess we haven’t been using much oil lately, because I didn’t even know we were out.  And we’ve been out of it for a long time, apparently. 

Anyway, after shopping begins the baking, which will continue throughout the week.  I’m making my awesome pumpkin bread this year, but I’m going to make enough to give to the neighbors, which means quadrupling the recipe.  If I don’t make enough so that there are at least two loaves here at home, my family may lynch me.  We all love the pumpkin bread, my dad especially.  I think it reminds him of when his own dad made it.  I was a very little girl when my Paw-Paw died, but I do remember eating his funny shaped pumpkin bread around the holidays.  He baked it in empty coffee cans, you see, so the loaves took on the shape of the can.  I didn’t know that it had been a family tradition for him to make it each year, so when I started making it for my own family and from my own recipe, my dad was thrilled.  In addition to the pumpkin bread, Mom and I decided to do Christmas cookies this year.  We have frozen cookie dough for both peanut butter cookies and chocolate chip cookies.  Mom is going to make something called “Power Cookies” that I only vaguely remember from my childhood, and I’m also going to make double peanut-butter cookies for the first time.  Someone sent me the recipe for them, but they were called “Million Dollar Cookies” and the recipe had, apparently, won a prize from a Pillsbury cookoff.  Don’t know if it’s true, but the recipe sounded awesome.  Plus, we love us some peanut butter cookies around here.

After spending the week in the kitchen, I’ll round out the week with my graduation on Friday.  I still have some things I need to do before Friday gets here, like iron my gown and attach the collar.  I also need a particular undergarment (which I’m sure you don’t need to hear about here) for the top I’m wearing under the gown, and the slacks I’ve picked out need to be hemmed.  I wanted to get a new pair of flats and a haircut, but they’ll just have to wait.  I have shoes that will work, and I can blow-dry my hair with a curling brush and make it look nice.  Besides, it’ll just get mashed by the cap I have to wear all night, so really just need the ends to look good.  LOL!

In between the cookies and the ironing, I’ll be obsessively checking to see if grades have been posted.  I know they won’t be up before the 17th, which is when the teachers have to have grades turned in, but I’ll be checking anyway because I’m a little ODC like that.  As soon as I know what my grades are, you, the fine people of the intarwebs, will know.

A time for rest Saturday, Dec 13 2008 

I woke up at 11:30am yesterday.  I can’t remember the last time I slept that late.  The very first thing I did was to grab a huge mug of coffee.  An hour later, and I was sleepy enough to want to take a nap.  I guess the semester (or the past four years, really) caught up with me yesterday because I never really felt awake and I was achey all day.  Especially my ankles and knees.  I’m sure the weather is not helping the arthritis, but being exhausted just adds to the misery.  I did cook a nice dinner for everyone, so the day wasn’t entirely wasted.

I was in bed and asleep by 10pm and didn’t wake up this morning until10am.  Twelve hours of sleep does a body good!  My back is achey today, but that’s because I slept in the same position all night.  I really was tired! 

The Kiddo is at the MIL’s today, so the Hubby and I are taking the opportunity to get most of our Christmas shopping for him done.  This year’s big gift is a cell phone.  But it’s going to be one of those that’s pay as you go.  I don’t want to add him to my plan until I know he can be responsible for all the rollover minutes I’ve accumulated.  So, the Hubby and I agreed on what we’re willing to pay on the Kiddo’s phone every month, and if he chooses to add more, that’s fine too.  But if he runs out of minutes before the month is over and he doesn’t have the funds to pay for more, we’re not covering him.  We have a fixed amount we’ll pay per month and that’s it. After that, he’s on his own.

I’m not sure what else we’re planning on doing today.  We’re just about to leave, so we’ll just have to wait and see.

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